Don't forget your social life when setting New Year's resolutions. If it seems difficult for you to name a specific goal, keep on trying until you find one. This may be traveling with friends, getting to know new people weekly, or having extraordinary experiences with your loved ones.
Having something to head for makes it much easier to keep in touch and/or strengthen bonds. It also helps you to be conscious about how important certain relationships are to you. Being aware of their meaning lets you appreciate them and enjoy getting together more. This is how future plans let you be here now.