tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725479498339900113.post3055762353370675408..comments2015-02-27T00:39:36.664-08:00Comments on The minimalist living<br>... less is more than a lifestyle: Undivided attentionklafatoahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16499142277624118042noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725479498339900113.post-33607064035954257522015-01-18T13:51:30.592-08:002015-01-18T13:51:30.592-08:00This weekend I had a conversation with a lesbian g...This weekend I had a conversation with a lesbian girl at a party. At one point I realized I was not entirely following and reminded me to really listen. After a couple of seconds she stopped her story and said: "It's amazing, you seem to listen with your eyes. As if you really felt what I'm telling you. You are a beautiful person."<br />It's incredible. Firstly, people recognize whether you're listening or not. Secondly, listening closely seems to be quite unusual.klafatoahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16499142277624118042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7725479498339900113.post-78657936710687661822015-01-18T03:57:25.579-08:002015-01-18T03:57:25.579-08:00I like the idea of undivided intention, especially...I like the idea of undivided intention, especially in interpersonal communication. Rather than thinking about what to say next, focus on listening and give the other person the gift of your undivided attention. I believe that undivided attention towards another person is the greatest gift that we can give, since it means giving our time solely to one person for a certain period of time. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05438131774173035644noreply@blogger.com